<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4231042382563628424.post1877740316472359268..comments</id><updated>2010-02-25T11:14:01.635-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on "...and that's why you NEVER get out of the tree.": Careful, your happiness is showing...</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.lessonsfromtheonearmedman.com/feeds/1877740316472359268/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4231042382563628424/1877740316472359268/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lessonsfromtheonearmedman.com/2010/02/careful-your-happiness-is-showing.html'/><author><name>Jeff Small</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07028765570554890709</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>2</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4231042382563628424.post-355292714810826342</id><published>2010-02-25T11:14:01.635-05:00</published><updated>2010-02-25T11:14:01.635-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks man. You know, it's easy too, to get caught...</title><content type='html'>Thanks man. You know, it&amp;#39;s easy too, to get caught up in other people&amp;#39;s issues. Whatever &amp;quot;mental-health-slash-self-esteem&amp;quot; issues someone else has that causes them to settle for whatever life is dropped in their lap, there&amp;#39;s nothing you, or anyone else can do to change whatever deep-seeded issues they have going on. It&amp;#39;s that idea of empathy taken to an extreme. You see someone and you just think, &amp;quot;I want to help them because this is NOT them&amp;quot;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hardest lesson I&amp;#39;ve had to learn over the last couple of years of real soul searching has been that no external force can &amp;quot;make&amp;quot; you happy. Happiness truly, truly has to come from within. You really do have to *make* yourself happy.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4231042382563628424/1877740316472359268/comments/default/355292714810826342'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4231042382563628424/1877740316472359268/comments/default/355292714810826342'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lessonsfromtheonearmedman.com/2010/02/careful-your-happiness-is-showing.html?showComment=1267114441635#c355292714810826342' title=''/><author><name>Jeff Small</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07028765570554890709</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='14355077322627421029'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.lessonsfromtheonearmedman.com/2010/02/careful-your-happiness-is-showing.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4231042382563628424.post-1877740316472359268' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4231042382563628424/posts/default/1877740316472359268' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4231042382563628424.post-2559357517805514987</id><published>2010-02-23T19:24:58.187-05:00</published><updated>2010-02-23T19:24:58.187-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I enjoyed this one. It's so easy to fall into thos...</title><content type='html'>I enjoyed this one. It&amp;#39;s so easy to fall into those traps but not at all easy to get out of them.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4231042382563628424/1877740316472359268/comments/default/2559357517805514987'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4231042382563628424/1877740316472359268/comments/default/2559357517805514987'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lessonsfromtheonearmedman.com/2010/02/careful-your-happiness-is-showing.html?showComment=1266971098187#c2559357517805514987' title=''/><author><name>Stefan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00497795812053638486</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.lessonsfromtheonearmedman.com/2010/02/careful-your-happiness-is-showing.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4231042382563628424.post-1877740316472359268' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4231042382563628424/posts/default/1877740316472359268' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>